Remember that old saying “life’s a bitch and then you die” well I prefer “life is short and then you die.” I woke up this morning and realized crap it’s already the end of May and then got hit with another blow shit it’s already MAY. Where the hell did the time go? I feel like I just dropped my daughter of at college and now she is home again. Has time sped up? It sure feels like it. What I began to ponder is this moment was life really is short on this planet earth. I am not going to babble on about living in the moment or being still or noticing all the simple things in life we all know that stuff. I am going to SHOUT OUT it is time to be authentic. Be honest, be real, be alive. This means live every day and just say what you feel but your truth not a judgement on someone else’s life.
I have found as a cancer thriver that you sort of get some guts back on telling people like it is and not sugar-coating anything in life. So I invite you to take even one day to just be honest about what you are feeling to the world. You might want to just lay around and watch a movie but you are suppose go with you friends to an event. Do you go because you feel obligated or guilty when your hearts not really into it? How many time have you done or gone somewhere because of guilt or obligation?
I invite you to feel what it feels like to just be honest “I don’t want to go because quite frankly I just want to relax at home” and not feel bad about speaking your truth. By dong this you take each moment of this precious life seriously and stop wasting time on doing things that don’t fill your heart and soul. A bonus to this is you get to empower others by role modeling.
Now this does’t mean not doing things to avoid emotion or conflict it just means be authentic notice when you are DOING because its routine or automatic or out of guilt or obligation. If you do however feel bad or guilty just be with that emotion and let it have some room to be acknowledged. State to yourself in your head or out loud “I am feeling guilty” don’t try to make the feeling go away just be with it. By doing this little exercise in most cases it will soften and often shift completely to no longer feeling it.
We have limited time on this planet so why not live it authentically and honestly believe me it feels good. I have found those in my life who are living authentically feel grateful of honesty and those who aren’t living authentically take honesty personally. Honesty really is the best policy but speaking from a place of how you are feeling about you. Try it you might get hooked and your short time here on earth may be just a little bit more real for you.